Well hello there, it’s been a while {four months is a while right} since I’ve published anything on this little corner of mine on the internet, be it my thoughts or even shared a full styling post and honestly I’m ashamed but thankfully, IT’S A NEW YEAR which means I have yet another opportunity to make things right and better.

I’ve kinda been MIA because work got so overwhelming with me trying to get that detty December monies but guess who is still waiting to get paid in January? Oh well, life of a freelance creative as you’d have so I’ve decided to go back to the drawing board and chase the things that truly filled my heart with joy which is creating content and writing. To ensure that I keep up the pace, I’ve decided to share a few goals for 2020 so y’all can be my accountability partners…

What I’m Wearing :

Shirt – Thrifted / Skirt – Thrifted / Shoes – Thrifted / Bag – IG / Glasses – Gifted


I get a lot of messages with compliments about how consistent I am, while I appreciate those a lot as they literally fill me with hope, I sincerely doubt my consistency especially of late and I’m determined to do better for me and for anyone reading this that genuinely enjoys my content. On this note, I’d like to let you know that there will be a blogpost every Monday and Friday henceforth, so help me God.


I’m up late a lot of nights and for years I’ve been using that as an excuse {okay honestly it’s not an excuse because I really stay up late like how I’m editing this post at 3:25am} because why do I wait till night time to get things done? You ain’t got the answer right? Neither do I but I’m willing to do better. This past week I’ve been learning to wake at 6am daily and so far I’ve been doing a good job and hope I can make it a habit.


I literally went from a size 10 bottom to a size 14 in 2019 and it’s been a struggle. From crying when I go jeans shopping as I never seem to find my size + the struggle of fitting multiple options to having to ditch wearing underwear because I find them so uncomfortable as it’s almost as if I outgrow every new set I buy in minutes. Funny part of all this, is that, I hardly even eat and I’m always on the go so this year I plan to look after my body properly, from working out to limiting my soda intake and hopefully remembering to drink some water.


Actually learn a lot of new things. I think I’m finally reading to learn how to drive, still a little bit scared but I think now is the time. I’m also itching to learn new languages, I’ve recently just downloaded the ‘duo lingo’ app and I’m hoping that will help me learn some Spanish {interested in Spanish because my middle name Sanita is Spanish}. I’m also hoping to sharpen my skills in social media management as that’s my actual job as that’s how one stays on top of their game amongst so many other things I hope to learn.


I have a fashion blog, so obviously I’m dedicated to dressing up. I actually really love styling and dressing up my body but I’ve come to the realization that I kinda neglect my face, it’s so bad that even something as basic as wearing powder is a hassle for me. This year, I have tagged it ‘SlayOnSlay2020’ and I have no intentions on slacking in one area. From faux lashes to arched brows to even more of my statement red lips etc y’all going to get it in full doses from me this year.


There is something really dear to my heart, in fact the most important thing I want to achieve this year, I can’t say it here because I’m afraid of jinxing it but I’ve written it down and when it starts to manifest, I would surely inform you all to partake of my joy. {If you read this far say a little prayer for me}

So yeah, that’s everything, well maybe not everything but the things I really hope to get done. I’m not really one to set ‘new year goals’ but this year for the first time in a long while I’m very clear on what I want. If you want to set goals too, I’d advise you set meaningful and realistic goals, this makes it easier to take appropriate steps and actually achieving them.

What goal(s) would you love to achieve this year? I’d absolutely love to hear about it.


thank you so much for reading this post, I sincerely hope it was worth your time. What kind of posts would you like to see on this blog? Do share with me by leaving me a comment below, I’d absolutely love to hear from you.

Love always,

Your SIS


    1. So glad you’re back! As always you look 🔥🔥. Like you I don’t set goals for the year, I’ve never done that before but this year, that changed. I decided to set goals and work my ass off to achieve as much as I can. Being consistent, learning new things (quite a lot) and waking up early are part of my 2020 goals too. I’m really looking forward to what the year holds for me. I hope you achieve your goals for the year. All the best 💕💕

      P. S I’ll love to see more style posts this year.


  1. I intend to be more consistent with dropping pieces on my rtw brand and sharpen my skills as regards designing bomb ass dresses. And also to make you and a few of my faves some pieces


  2. So glad to see your goals for the year especially since some are in line with mine while others I’ve borrowed from yours #slayonslay2020 ….. can’t wait to keep track as we tick them off together!!❤️


  3. Sis I really missed you and I’m so glad you’re back and with a bang. I love this new post especially the pictures. They’re heavenly. And the goals are awesome too. We’ve got a few in common and don’t worry we all will say a prayer for you mission. Hope it sails through.
    And by the way #slayonslay2020 is 💯🔥. Joined that movement and I even wrote a whole blogpost about it. Thanks for the inspiration.

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  4. SIS! You’re certainly not joking with this #SlayonSlay2020 !!
    I pray God guides you through and Grant you the grace to achieve all you want.. including the secret one of course.🙏🏾

    As for me, my consistency is the most important thing I need to work on for Sure. Followed by improving my thought process cos jeez! I over think everything and end up doing nothing!🤦🏾‍♀️ Plus a bunch of other things to work on.
    SO HELP ME GOD! 💃🏾


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